Letting Go After Being Dumped Heartfelt Advice From Someone Who has Been There

Letting go of my ex was one of the biggest challenges I faced the initial weeks after being dumped. It’s been about 2 years now and occasionally, he still comes to mind. Just yesterday I remembered that it was his birthday today and I was toying with the idea of calling him. Then I forced [...]

Should I Consider Getting Back With My Ex After Being Dumped?

Being dumped is extremely painful; it can be a source of self-depletion, self-doubt, self-hatred and distrust of people in general. No matter where, how or why it happened, sometimes, it all seems unbearable. In response to my previous post on, When Your Ex Sends A Text Message After The Breakup: What To Do, I received [...]

Got Dumped For Another Or Got Dumped For No One: What Hurts More?

My good friend Lisa (I’m using her middle name for obvious reasons!), got dumped last week. She was devastated to know that her boyfriend of 3 years dumped her, for someone else. I went to visit her on Saturday and joined the “pity party” she was going through. After consuming way too much alcohol, she [...]

After Being Dumped The One Thing You Should Never Apologize For

Being dumped means different things to different people. For some it is a relief and for others being dumped is the worst feeling ever!. I understand how eager you might be to get back with your ex. You might be willing to do just about anything, to get your ex back. During my teenage years, [...]

Ways To Cope With Loneliness After Being Dumped

The hardest part of the end of a relationship is the lack of one! Coping with loneliness after being dumped is very difficult since being alone tends to make you think about the relationship you had; the time you spent together. A void is created and it’s hard to find ways and means to fill [...]

Impact Of Being Dumped:How Being Dumped Has Changed My Life

Being dumped tends to have various impacts in a person’s future, long after the relationship has ended. This post is my collection of thoughts of how being dumped, (this so called lessons in life experiences!) has affected many aspects of my life. Side Note: I am taking a break on break up advice today and [...]

Christmas Break up: How To Survive Being Dumped During The Christmas Holidays

The first holiday you experience after being dumped is always the hardest I think Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays are difficult, but there are ways to get through them without hiding from the break up pain. This I know from experience. Not so long ago, I too was getting over being dumped. So I can honestly [...]

Got Dumped? 13 Reasons Why The Breakup Is Your Fault

Generally, if someone says, “ I got dumped and it’s my fault” or when I write posts about being dumped, I usually say it’s not your fault; You should not blame yourself for being dumped. Today, I’m going to say otherwise! Why? When it comes to love, some of us tend to dig our own [...]

On Being Dumped: Don’t Cry Over Someone Who Won’t Cry Over You

In my last post, I shared my sad story of being dumped, the most devastating break up I’ve had so far. From the day, I got dumped, the days that followed are a bit blurry, but I remember crying for almost 3 days. I still remember , that I sat here, looking at this very [...]

Being Dumped Is The Worst Feeling Ever!

People may say no one ever died of being dumped. However, when you are the one that has been dumped, it sure doesn’t feel that way; at least initially. You are hurting real deep, and your heart is shattered to pieces, but that is not enough to kill you!

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