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	<title>Comments on: Smart Women, Foolish Choices: Finding the Right Men Avoiding the Wrong Ones (If only it was that easy!)</title>
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		<title>By: Nomrah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nomrah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 23:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just finished reading the book. I too agree the book is bit biased toward &quot;real men&quot; being in position to step up to the plate. There are so many variables in partnering with anyone... (EX WIFE/WIVES, CHILDREN, SICKNESS, UNEMPLOYED, DRUG OFFENDERS, ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, HOW RAISED, MONEY, RELIGIOUS OR NOT, ETC,ETC.)  Most strong women I know are married to men from the lowest end of the spectrum to the apex, as they married men that they thought were diamonds in the rough and most have negative issues in almost every category.  My main belief is we not only get married to young, and as a society (that&#039;s really sick right now) somehow  must teach people to wait until a few more of the kinks are worked out before using each other as a training ground.  We have too many causalties and the wounded, bruised and abused just keep recycling the same people. Society as a whole always seem to ask the women to take the male at face value, but the woman must look like a model, cook like a chef, work a fulltime job and run the household like a corporation while the male plays golf, watch football and drink beer with his friends. I made my contribution through being the dutiful, the caring and the forgiving.  My life&#039;s gains and losses has brought me to a self realization that &quot;I would rather have a little of what I need, than a lot of what I don&#039;t&quot;.  I can LIVE with that and rest well at night.  Now I would like to see pictures of the spouses of the authors and if their total number exceeds 2.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just finished reading the book. I too agree the book is bit biased toward &#8220;real men&#8221; being in position to step up to the plate. There are so many variables in partnering with anyone&#8230; (EX WIFE/WIVES, CHILDREN, SICKNESS, UNEMPLOYED, DRUG OFFENDERS, ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, HOW RAISED, MONEY, RELIGIOUS OR NOT, ETC,ETC.)  Most strong women I know are married to men from the lowest end of the spectrum to the apex, as they married men that they thought were diamonds in the rough and most have negative issues in almost every category.  My main belief is we not only get married to young, and as a society (that&#8217;s really sick right now) somehow  must teach people to wait until a few more of the kinks are worked out before using each other as a training ground.  We have too many causalties and the wounded, bruised and abused just keep recycling the same people. Society as a whole always seem to ask the women to take the male at face value, but the woman must look like a model, cook like a chef, work a fulltime job and run the household like a corporation while the male plays golf, watch football and drink beer with his friends. I made my contribution through being the dutiful, the caring and the forgiving.  My life&#8217;s gains and losses has brought me to a self realization that &#8220;I would rather have a little of what I need, than a lot of what I don&#8217;t&#8221;.  I can LIVE with that and rest well at night.  Now I would like to see pictures of the spouses of the authors and if their total number exceeds 2.</p>
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		<title>By: Arnold Micucci</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arnold Micucci</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 04:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just commenting on how good the design of your site is, been serching into creating a blog similar to yours and might make mine similar, did you hire a coder or did you code it yourself?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just commenting on how good the design of your site is, been serching into creating a blog similar to yours and might make mine similar, did you hire a coder or did you code it yourself?</p>
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		<title>By: Donte Volper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donte Volper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 04:32:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting topic will bookmark your site to check if you write more about in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting topic will bookmark your site to check if you write more about in the future.</p>
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