Comments on: I Just Got Dumped: Surviving The First Day After A Break Up

By: just me

just me — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 02:14:42 +0000

she broke up with me after three years by getting her husband i didn’t know she had to call me and tell me she was married and to leave her alone. at 3 a.m. looking back, it explains a lot. just beyond devastated.

By: Michell

Michell — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 09:33:52 +0000

I just go broken up with tonight and it is miserable. I feel like I have no one to talk to and don’t know what to do.i actually cared so much for someone and lived with him for five mines spent everyday togeather and we have a big fight, which yes I was dramatic and wanted to fight — he the. Left and the. I took my things or most of my things back to my place and then the following night he came over with my suitcases and all my shoes in a trash bag and ended it with me.said he can’t handle this anymore, all we have been doing is fighting –which is not true. So I’m just shocked . I don’t know what to do. He said he never loved me ect and then drove off. So confused becasuse the whole time we have been togeather is was happy and good but all he says is he had to do it and it would have only got worse blah blah. I don’t even know. I can’t sleep or do anything:/

By: Boni

Boni — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:43:04 +0000

i just got dumped and it ws all so sudden, i fill like my whole world has collapsed and i dont know how to deal with it

By: Irina

Irina — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 23:19:12 +0000

Just recently got dumped via e-mail (!!) after a 3-years (!!) of a wonderful relationship. Hard to believe? Reason: the guy wants to have kids at some point and I can’t anymore. Respectable reason? Perhaps. Right way to break up? Don’t think so, it hurt like hell, though I am glad that I can read and re-read all the good words he was able to say about me and what I brought into his life. Awful: that he is refusing to meet with me. My guess: it is painful for him as well. The way I handle it: as soon as I got the message, I talked to my close friends and to my kids. Got lots of support and their time while I was crying on their shoulders. Then I went dancing that night. And since then I am making sure to go out dancing, be with friends, attend parties, work and just be with people around. Taking more of dance lessons (latin and ballroom) and just dance away any time I can. Went to an art museum and the restaurant I love. So, doing things I love with people I like or love. No other way. Love yourself and treat yourself nicely. After the initial shock, devastation and disbelieve thank for what you have got: family, friends, your health, work. Yes, it is nice to be able to go to work and not to stay at home by yourself crying. Go for a walk with your co-workers during lunch break. Smile to the sun!

By: yen

yen — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 12:36:48 +0000

it’s already one week after being dumped. still crying. still love mi. still felt that he’s my whole world. but after reading few articles here, felt better.

everyday felt like the first day of break up till now. he just want a break up because he simply cant clique with mi. but during the realtionship i felt perfect. i felt that i being cherished and loved. But a sudden break up is so overwhelming as it is so unexpected. during this relationship, he is my motivation, my life my future. but all of a sudden its gone. so i guess anyone can tell how terrible i felt.

how i survived. i dont know. but articles here made mi felt a lot better. thanks!

By: tk

tk — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 13:26:24 +0000

I got dumped last night, after 9 years. Totaly out of the blue for me, and it felt like the worst sucker-punch to the chest imaginable. Said she needed time to herself. we were to be married.

Everything the internet tells me I should do looks right but feels wrong.

The feeling of wrongness almost overpowers the fact that I am so sad and shocked that I got physicaly ill. I post it here so that I can postpone talking to friends or family, because that would only make it more real.

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