Dumped Someone And Realized It Was A Mistake?

June 22, 2013 by Persha Davis  
Filed under Break up recovery, relationship advice

I received an interesting email from a Dumped Days reader last week.

I have a burning question, do you have any advice for anyone who dumped someone, only to realize that it was a mistake? I broke off a relationship 8 months ago. About one month after, I started to miss my ex. Initially, I felt as if my ex wanted out of the relationship, so I didn’t want to get too attached so in trying to protect myself, I did the dumping. It wasn’t that difficult and I felt I came out “unscathed”. After a few weeks I realized that I made a huge mistake and regretted breaking up. We didn’t talked much, but I received an email a few days ago saying that I am loved. But I don’t want it to be over.”

I replied the mail and the same time, I thought of posting it here so that it will be beneficial for others, who are in a similar position.

Why Do you want to reverse the break up?

Be very sure that you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons.

If you are just feeling guilty because your dumped someone, obviously it’s shouldn’t be your motivation for getting back with your ex.
If you can’t imagine yourself single again, that’s not a reason to get your ex back.
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You might think it’s silly to mention these, but often people get back together for other reasons and not really because you love someone and can’t imagine a life without them.

How should you go about getting your ex back?

I can go on like everyone else and give you a steps and say it will guarantee getting your ex back. There are so many getting your ex back books, and most of them are crap.

Since, I am someone who dish out hard love, I’ll say that it all depends. While there may be “best practices” on how you can get your ex back, you need to keep an open mind that it might not work.

So it all depends. It depends on how you ended it with your ex. What was the reason you gave, the circumstances and how your ex feels about you. Are they in anger because you dumped your partner? Or is your ex still in love with you etc.

What you can use to your advantages is what you already know about your ex. You know their likes and dislikes. So think of what you can do to win over your ex.

Often more than what you might say, gesture and actions speak louder than words. If possible try to resolve things face to face.

If it was your fault, apologize and ensure that your ex is aware of how sorry you are.

It will be a challenge, so don’t give up at the first attempt. Have patience and see where things will it. If it’s your ex’s choice not to get back with you, then you should respect the decision, even though you might not want to. Sadly, such is life.

All the best in your attempt in getting your ex back. I wish you well.

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