Could You Give Someone Who Broke Your Heart A Second Chance ?
July 23, 2010 by Persha Davis
Filed under Getting back with Ex
We all mess up now and again, thus giving someone a second chance is not something unheard of. At some point in life, we face the dilemma of either asking for a second chance or deciding to give someone a second chance.
What would you do, if one of these people asked you for a second chance? Showed remorse for what happened previously; pleaded with you, and told you how much he/she has changed… for the better? How hard would it be to give that second chance?
“Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me”
Famous sayings such as the above don’t make it any easier!
This person hurt you once; you felt let down.
- How can you be sure that it won’t happen again?
- Has this person really changed?
- Could you see yourself ever trusting him/her?
- Caring about him/her freely again after what he/she did?
- Would you want to risk it ALL again?
Have you ever been in caught up in such torment?
On giving someone who broke your heart a second chance: My two cents
People fight; get confused about what they want. They breakup and get back together; It happens. What matters is should it happen to you.
You have to be able to realize what went wrong the last time and not let emotions cloud your judgment.
Make sure that the other person is sincere in efforts to get back together and for wanting a second chance. If this is not the case, you could find the one who cares enough to not hurt you that much. Just be honest with yourself about if he/she is worth the risk again. If not, you’re setting yourself up for another breakup.
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