On Being Dumped: Don’t Cry Over Someone Who Won’t Cry Over You

In my last post, I shared my sad story of being dumped, the most devastating break up I’ve had so far. From the day, I got dumped, the days that followed are a bit blurry, but I remember crying for almost 3 days. I still remember , that I sat here, looking at this very [...]

After Being Dumped, Force Yourself To Accept It’s Really Over

Some relationships are casual or convenient, and when they end, it isn’t too hard to shrug them off and move on. They don’t linger in the psyche and they don’t have much effect on the future. And then there’s true love gone wrong… it’s like a horrible car crash. Not just a fender bender but [...]

Every New Beginning Comes From Some Other Beginning’s End

Today we mark another milestone in our daily lives… the end of 2009. How has 2009 treated you?
If you could describe this year in once sentence, what would it be?
A good year with dreams fulfilled?
The year, I met the love of my life?
A year I made the worst mistake of my life?
A year where every [...]

Got Dumped? Wise Words To Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself After Being Dumped

A few months ago, I got dumped by my then boyfriend. Even though I had been dumped about twice before (by different guys!), this break up hurt the most because I was head over heels in love and thought “he was the one”.
Often, no one likes to be dumped. It’s the ultimate feeling of [...]

38 Ways To Keep Busy After A Break Up

fter a break up, the busy schedule you had before the break up, doesn’t seem that important any more. You suddenly feel like you have so much more time on your hands. This opens the door to a million and one reminders of your ex which haunt you day in and day out.
I have been [...]

Regret Breaking up? Dealing With Feelings Of Regret After A Break Up

ecently, one of my friend’s broke up with her boy friend. After few days of frustration, being overwhelmed, and having a bit of a meltdown, she asked me, “Did you ever regret breaking up with someone?”
My “feel good” reply, “I am the queen of looking back and saying, “Gosh, I don’t know if that [...]

Break Up Advice I Hate Hearing When I’m Getting Over Someone!

Whenever I go through a break up, several friends and family members (voluntarily) shower me with break up advice. I know that they mean well and have my best interest at heart. However, when I am getting over someone, these types of break up advice is the last thing I want to hear (even though deep down I know it’s true!)