Being Dumped Is The Worst Feeling Ever!
November 16, 2009 by Persha Davis
Filed under Being Dumped
Being dumped is the worst feeling ever
It’s not uncommon to hear this from someone who has been dumped (I have said this myself a few times!)
People may say no one ever died of being dumped. However, when you are the one that has been dumped, it sure doesn’t feel that way; at least initially. You are hurting real deep, and your heart is shattered to pieces, but that is not enough to kill you!
Being Dumped : The realization that it ends here
You had a lifetime of activities planned and your loving partner was a major part in this future script. Then to suddenly realize that you have been dumped…, it’s like the carpet you standing on is pulled right-out from underneath. Your life as you knew it doesn’t exist anymore, and it feels like a part of you is missing. Sometimes you feel like you’ll never be happy again.
Being Dumped : The worst part of the end of a relationship can be the lack of one
When you are in a relationship, you tend to give a lot of the “me” activities you enjoy in favor of the “we” activities that you could do as a couple. Gradually, you begin to enjoy and the things you’ll do together becomes a routine. When a relationship ends, sometimes it feels like you need to adjust your routine as well.
For example, my boyfriend (now ex!) and I used to go running every week-end morning. After we broke up, I still wanted to continue my running, but the very activity reminded me of him.
Another thing that made me miserable was coming home to an empty house after work; missing the affectionate words I used to hear all the time… yes, I missed him all over again!
Being Dumped : The Fear
You will find yourself facing two very real fears.
1) The fear that you will never recover from this pain
2) The fear that no one will ever love you again.
Being Dumped : The wounded ago
The lousiest feeling in the world is when you love someone so deeply and intimately that it suddenly ends with rejection by our partner. Finding out that they do not return the love and emotion that you have for them is one of the worst feelings there is.
Have you ever been dumped? What’s the worst feeling you experienced about being dumped?
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