Should I Consider Getting Back With My Ex After Being Dumped?

Being dumped is extremely painful; it can be a source of self-depletion, self-doubt, self-hatred and distrust of people in general. No matter where, how or why it happened, sometimes, it all seems unbearable. In response to my previous post on, When Your Ex Sends A Text Message After The Breakup: What To Do, I received [...]

When Your Ex Sends A Text Message After The Breakup: What To Do

You are really hurt over your recent breakup; You want get past the breakup pain and move on as quickly as possible. Just when you think you can pull yourself together and get life going on the “normal” track… What do you do, when your ex sends you a text? Well, this really depends on [...]

Revenge After Break Up: 5 Things To Think About Before Getting Even With Your Ex

After a break up, there are times when you feel “wronged” or “victimized” by your ex’s actions. Or maybe your ex has hurt you in ways you can’t put into words. Deep down, you feel as if your ex has just walked away, without any “justice” being done. All the mess surrounding your break up [...]

Got Dumped For Another Or Got Dumped For No One: What Hurts More?

My good friend Lisa (I’m using her middle name for obvious reasons!), got dumped last week. She was devastated to know that her boyfriend of 3 years dumped her, for someone else. I went to visit her on Saturday and joined the “pity party” she was going through. After consuming way too much alcohol, she [...]

Blaming Myself For The Break Up Even When Everyone Says Don’t Blame Yourself

My story of blaming myself for the break up Often I start thinking about the smallest things that I may have done to upset him. I ask myself, “if this had not happened would we still be together?”. I blame myself everyday with what I could have done better; what I could have done PERIOD. [...]

22 Ways You Make Your Life More Miserable After A Break Up

It’s bad enough that the break up itself makes you miserable. You feel like your whole world just turned upside down; you feel incapable of going on. At the same time, you (unconsciously?) do more things to make life even more miserable after a break up! These are a few ways you might be digging [...]

Not Forgiving Your Ex Imprisons You (and Eventually Ruins Your Life!)

When you feel “wronged” or victimized by your ex, often it can take over your entire being. Your life seems to be revolving around that very fact. You sometimes tend to think, What my ex has done is simply inexcusable! My ex doesn’t deserve my forgiveness. If you are in a similar situation, you are [...]

Cheap Valentines Day Gift Ideas For Your Boyfriend (Valentine Edition)

My boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend!) used to insist that I shouldn’t buy him a Valentine’s day gift each year. He didn’t (at all!) believe in the commercialization of Valentines’ day. On the other hand, me being the hopeless romantics wanted to do something special, something small (and cheap!) When it comes to guys, I always find [...]

After Being Dumped The One Thing You Should Never Apologize For

Being dumped means different things to different people. For some it is a relief and for others being dumped is the worst feeling ever!. I understand how eager you might be to get back with your ex. You might be willing to do just about anything, to get your ex back. During my teenage years, [...]

Ways To Cope With Loneliness After Being Dumped

The hardest part of the end of a relationship is the lack of one! Coping with loneliness after being dumped is very difficult since being alone tends to make you think about the relationship you had; the time you spent together. A void is created and it’s hard to find ways and means to fill [...]

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