After Getting Dumped 4 Things You Should Not Do

February 18, 2013 by Persha Davis  
Filed under Getting Dumped

After I got dumped, I did so many things that I really regret now. I had friends’ who told me these exact things I am about to write. At the time, I wasn’t thinking clearly and I guess I was blinded by emotion.

I admit that getting dumped made me do certain things I wouldn’t otherwise even think of! It took me a while to know or rather realize what I was doing was wrong. It wasn’t helping me get over being dumped. Nor did it help my credibility in the eyes of my ex. In fact I lost the chance to be “just friend’s” because of all the things I shouldn’t have done!

After Getting Dumped

1. Pleading to get back together

You need to keep your head high and accept the break up. It’s not easy. In fact, its heart wrenchingly painful.

The more you plead the more desperate you sound, the less likely someone is even going to consider getting back with you.
Often, they’ll consider you to be a real nuisance and try to cut out any communication with you.

If the friendship means anything to you, make sure you don’t come off as desperate by “degrading” yourself.

Further reading
Can You Really Be Friends With Your Ex After Being Dumped?

5 Practical Ways To Forget Your Ex Fast

2. Don’t stalk your ex

You are tempted to know what your ex is up to after he/she dumped you. If your ex has moved on with somebody else, then this will be tormenting for your to watch! I am not talking about old school stalking either! These days you can get to know what someone is doing online. Facebook stalking is equally or even more damaging!

3. Contacting your Ex’s friends

If you’ll were mutual friends then it does make sense to keep in touch with them. Though I’d find it awkward. Another pitfall of the break up, if you shared mutual friends!

Anyways, if you keep bothering your ex’s friends, your ex might not like that. Sometimes, your ex might not want them to know all the details about your relationship, what led to the break up etc.

4. Not letting go

There will come a time when you have to think of a life besides your ex. I don’t expect this to be the day after you got dumped! With time, you’ll come to realize that it’s inevitable.

Further reading

Got Dumped By Someone You Loved? The Road To Recovery Starts Here

Everything happens for a reason, even though sometimes, we might not see it that way.

As hard as it may be for you to let go, it’s the only way you will be able to move forward.

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